Nora Ephron – A Genius For Humor – born May 19, 1941

NORA EPHRON; Writer and Filmmaker With a Genius for Humor….., an essayist and humorist, who became one of her era’s most successful screenwriters and filmmakers, making romantic comedy hits like ”Sleepless in Seattle” and ”When Harry Met Sally,’ was born on May 19, 1941, on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. (Yes, this celebration is one-week belated though she deserves recognition).

In a commencement address she delivered in 1996 at Wellesley College, her alma mater, Ms. Ephron recalled that women of her generation weren’t expected to do much of anything. But she wound up having several careers, all of them successfully and many simultaneously.

She was a journalist, a blogger, an essayist, a novelist, a playwright, an Oscar-nominated screenwriter and a movie director — a rarity in a film industry whose directorial ranks were and continue to be dominated by men. Her later box-office success included ”You’ve Got Mail” and ”Julie & Julia.” By the end of her life, though remaining remarkably youthful looking, she had even become something of a philosopher about age and its indignities.

Ms. Ephron made as much fun of herself as of anyone else. She was labeled a practitioner of the New Journalism, with its embrace of novelistic devices in the name of reaching a deeper truth, but she always denied the connection. ”I am not a new journalist, whatever that is,” she once wrote. ”I just sit here at the typewriter and bang away at the old forms.”

Her first screenplay, written with her friend Alice Arlen, was for ”Silkwood,” a 1983 film based on the life of Karen Silkwood, who died under suspicious circumstances while investigating abuses at a plutonium plant where she had worked. Ms. Arlen was in film school then, and Ms. Ephron had scant experience writing for anything other than the page. But Mike Nichols, who directed the movie (which starred Ms. Streep and Kurt Russell), said that the script made an immediate impression on him.

Ms. Ephron followed ”Silkwood” three years later with a screenplay adaptation of her own novel ”Heartburn,” which was also directed by Mr. Nichols. But it was her script for ”When Harry Met Sally,” which became a hit Rob Reiner movie in 1989 starring Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan, that established Ms. Ephron’s gift for romantic comedy and for delayed but happy endings that reconcile couples who are clearly meant for each other but don’t know it.

Ms. Ephron earned three Oscar nominations for best screenplay, for ”Silkwood,” ”Sleepless in Seattle” and ”When Harry Met Sally.” But in all her moviemaking years she never gave up writing in other forms. Two essay collections, ”I Feel Bad About My Neck: And Other Reflections on Being a Woman” (2006) and ”I Remember Nothing” (2010), were both best sellers. With her sister Delia she wrote a play, ”Love, Loss, and What I Wore,” about women and their wardrobes (once calling it ” ‘The Vagina Monologues’ without the vaginas”) and by herself she wrote ”Imaginary Friends,” a play, produced in 2002, about the literary and personal quarrel between Lillian Hellman and Mary McCarthy.

In person Ms. Ephron — small and fine-boned with high cheeks and a toothy smile — had the same understated, though no less witty, style that she brought to the page. ”Sitting at a table with Nora was like being in a Nora Ephron movie,” Ms. Quinn said. ”She was brilliant and funny.” Another friend, Robert Gottlieb, who had edited her books since the 1970s, said ”the private Nora was even more remarkable,” he added, saying she was ”always there for you with a full heart plus the crucial dose of the reality principle.”

Ms. Streep called her a ”stalwart.” ”You could call on her for anything: doctors, restaurants, recipes, speeches, or just a few jokes, and we all did it, constantly,” she wrote in her e-mail. ”She was an expert in all the departments of living well.”

SOURCE New York Times